Does the title seem harsh? It does to me, but I can't seem to convince myself that it is wrong. We all have intentions to do or say things. It is easy to believe that all these intentions are good, at least they seem good at the time. What I am unable to shake from the back of my head is the fact that it is what we actually do that really matters. If I "intend" to get the wife a gift but never actually get it what is actually counted? Sure she will say "it is the thought that counts" but let's be honest with ourselves, the actions are the important part. The example of the gift for Mrs, seems innocuous. What if we change that example to "love your child" or "feed the hungry" or "stay faithful to my spouse".
Great intentions, but not following through with those is … you get the point, right?